When You say “I Tried, Tried But I Fail!” – Death to Self is Death to Pride and Self-Righteousness
For those who have hard time understanding:
Believe Gal 2:20 has been fulfilled in you with Romans 6
This is practical faith
Loosing hold of your own righteousness
and relying on Christ alone
Knowing that there is no hope in you
But that He can
 Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me.  I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.
For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.
For, being ignorant of the righteousness of God, and seeking to establish their own, they did not submit to God’s righteousness.
Who say, “Keep to yourself, do not come near me, for I am too holy for you.” These are a smoke in my nostrils, a fire that burns all the day.
For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God’s law; indeed, it cannot.
it should be more like
as we rely on Him, He works for us
as the bridegroom worked for the bride, and bride relied on the bridegroom to continue its living in the old times,
Jesus also works for us and we rely on Him
He and we are in the contract of grace and new covenant
that we became His bride waiting for Him